Finding Love after tragedy is very different. Your guards are up as high as they can possibly be especially after facing a great deal of trauma. You have no trust what so ever. Coming out of tragedy or any toxic relationship really opens your eyes in more ways than you can even imagine.
You have multiple questions going through your mind. Is this person going to hit me? Do they have a temper? Do they have a police record that I know nothing about? Are they a criminal? What is their motive? Are they a cheater? Are they going to kill me in my sleep? Will this relationship be worse than my last? Will they manipulate me? Will they isolate me? Will I just be their trophy? How many other girls are telling these lines too? Is this person going to be abusive? Are they controlling?